Saturday, 18 May 2013

The Reason Why Lovely Relationships Break Into Pieces Like A Glass In A Twinkle...


I have sat down many times to ask myself this question, "why is it that you see two people in a lovely relationship and all of a sudden, they will breakup?" This is a very important issue because your status and whoever you claim to be, we all need lovely companion to give us mental and emotional balance during our down moments...wealth cannot buy you that.
This is very very sad to hear; I have seen a couple that got separated within two weeks of marriage. I have a friend who was in a very lovely and enviable relationship with his hearthrob for years and got broke up in less than a day...though the problem that led to the breakup don't normally start in one day...
These are painful situations indeed, for that same love that tastes like honey will also taste like gall when the time comes.
This is the deadly moment among every other moment which poisons a lovely relationship; 'the period you begin to analyze the days of sacrifice'. This is the highest point of compatibility test in a relationship. When you remember all the  harmful risks you took on behalf of your hearthrob which you will hardly do for your mother yet he/she has the gut to treat you that way; behold, you will see heavens tearing apart that very moment and if not handled well, your lover will immediately turn to your greatest enemy for he/she knows your inner secret even more than your family members. Knowing your secret means knowing your weak points.
But if the two partner will look back and see how far they have suffered to build that relationship and also realize that the devil you know is better than that angel you' ve not spent a night with, they will tenaciously and jealously guide and guard that relationship...Challenges will never cease to visit any relationship in the manner you never anticipated.
It is an answerable responsibility for allowing the heavens to let loose in your relationship. Know when to regain your senses and reject that ugly thing that is to happen to avoid future blood-sucking regrets.
Even when you are angry, still find a place in your heart to forgive and keep loving her; then don't be a fool not to join him to fight that enemy who is about to rob that enviable and lovely relationship from you people.
I will be there for any relationship counselling...remain blessed.

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