I Know It Is Painful But How Do I Accommodate It?

Any relationship that doesn't make it a point of duty to ask and resolve this question among them will never survive. A perfect man can never exist and a perfect woman can never exist as well; unless you allow the good side of your partner to overshadow his/her weak side...Until then you shall breed a perfect soul mate.
The only problem every marriage suffers is simply the fact that it involves two people. You are not getting married to marry yourself but to marry someone who is not of your blood. If you know that you are not ready to accommodate some strange behaviours, never go into a relationship. If you are the type that can never accept to be at fault for one day, your relationship can never hold.
This is not easy mind you; and if the sacrifice is one sided, then at the last limit of tolerance, the two partners must separate. Don't wait until a break up. Know when to take the blame. Be very intelligent and sensitive enough to appreciate it when your partner is sacrificing a lot for the sake of peace(don't be a fool). Learn how to live to fight another day when your spirit is calm...There must be a balance and try to Love your partner the same way you love yourself. Be mindful of your behaviour for you might be hurting him/her badly.
I wish YOU a very enviable relationship...